President’s Letter: Taking Our Own Advice

This time of year always seems like a challenge as we get bogged down with the never-ending demands. Complaining about being overwhelmed is easy, and I for one have my moments. Yet what do we encourage our students to do when they feel the weight of the world on their shoulders? Do we not tell them to create a list and game plan? Breathe? Do self-care? Let’s embrace our own wisdom to re-energize ourselves!
 
Many exciting things are happening for school counselors in Ohio. Thanks to previous OSCA leadership, we have relationships with key stakeholders who better understand that school counselors make a difference. As a result, OSCA is able to support school counselors in their role of promoting student success by being a voice at the table regarding critical issues. OSCA is currently participating in discussions regarding social/emotional learning standards for grades 4-12, school safety initiatives and presenting at state conferences.
 
School counselors often wear many different hats representing the variety of roles we have within education. One of those roles is to be an advocate and resource for families. As school counselors, we work with families every day to strengthen the relationship between home and school. I strongly believe parents want their child to be successful, yet not every parent has acquired the skills to understand human behavior, child development, not to mention the complexities of social media today. Where are these skills learned? School counselors are often the people that families contact when they have a concern or a need. We need to be prepared to help families find solutions and resources to maximize student potential. School counselors empower families to meet the developmental needs of their child. We educate parents about things from graduation requirements to bedtime routines, from communication skills to creating quiet places to do homework. Sometimes simple lessons can make all the difference to a parent who truly wants the best for his or her child but does not know where to start.
 
I encourage you to reflect on those families who have grown stronger because you were part of their lives. Let these memories serve as a reminder of your successes in the face of many obstacles. Throughout this newsletter, you will find more information and resources to strengthen your ability to work with families.
 
As we wind down the school year, I express my appreciation for your dedication and commitment to your students, schools, and communities.
 
Contact Heather Fairs, OSCA president, at heatherfairs@ohioschoolcounselor.org.