When I completed my degree in school counseling, I quickly realized a major disconnect between the expectations versus reality of referring students for outside mental health services. I was under the impression that when students needed outside, ongoing counseling, it would be as simple as suggesting that need to parents/guardians and providing them with a list of potential providers, then it would magically be done! “Surely,” I naively thought, “with my newly minted graduate degree, parents will value my professional opinion and seek out the resources I suggest.” How surprised I was to realize that my suggestions were met with opposition or, even worse, apathy. More frustrating has been the time spent trying to coordinate appointments, just to have the students not show.